The end of the year and the beginning of a New Year are always good times with people making New Year resolutions. For mesothelioma patients, this is a moment of hope as they dream for a better life in the coming year. While reflecting on the past and planning for the future, it is important for mesothelioma patients to be realistic in their resolutions to avoid frustration.
Certain periods and events make us pause and evaluate our lives
Apart from the New Year, birthday anniversaries (particularly the ones of 25, 30, 40, 50 and 75) make us more aware of our age and allow us to rethink the path of our lives likewise our health. Certain events such as the death of a loved one or divorce can also lead to a re-examination of our life goals.
A mesothelioma diagnosis is a life changing event
There is popular saying that what you don’t know cannot kill you – guess the people that made the statement are considering the psychological implication. When you are diagnosed with mesothelioma or any other terminal illness, the news can have a traumatic effect on you because mesothelioma is life-limiting and can affect your relationship, financial and retirement plans.
Maintaining positive thought may be difficult after mesothelioma diagnosis
Those who are aware of mesothelioma understands that it progress over time and can have an adverse effect on personal health. Being aware of these negative thoughts can make it very difficult to maintain a positive thought. The patient may find themselves thinking about the possibility of them making the reunion, the possibility of making that important journey the next year and so on.
The challenges of planning for the future can be overcome
To effectively plan ahead while battling with mesothelioma, the patient and family members have to maintain balance and flexibility. Take note of the possibility of you being in and out of treatment and make provisions for them in your plan. If there is a major project you want to embark on, talk to your oncologist to see how feasible it would be and also to iron out the timing.
Patients and family members should keep an open mind for the worst
In your planning, make room for the unexpected – simply put, be realistic in your expectations. Avoid spending a large chunk of your savings on frivolous journeys when you know that you have to undergo treatment very often – which would require a large sum of money. The family members should also understand that the patient may have to quit their work and become more of a financial burden to the family.
Every activity or person that leads to stress should be cut out
Mesothelioma is already enough stress (mentally and physically) to combat with. Additional stress should be avoided like a plague. For this reason, the patient may need to scale back their activities and let go of people who contribute to their stress. Doing so will allow them to focus more on meaningful activities that will be beneficial to them.
Many New Year resolutions fail because they are unrealistic
The above guides will help the patient to plan for a realistic New Year resolution. When unrealistic plans like planning for the various steps you will take to make sure your mesothelioma is cured are made, they are bound to fail and ultimately lead to frustration for the patient, caregiver, and the entire family. Your childhood dreams can be ruined by terminal illnesses and you have to accept it and change your dream.
- Mesothelioma victims need to make realistic New Year resolution.
- Different conditions can lead to personal reflection.
- Mesothelioma diagnosis leads to trauma.
- The progress of mesothelioma can have devastating effect on the patient.
- Victims of mesothelioma need to eliminate external stress.
- Patients should incorporate visit to hospitals in their plan.
- Oncologists should be involved in plans that involve strenuous activities.
- Cancer patients should avoid spending too much on vacations.
- Patients and family members should plan for the worst.
- Families need to realize that the patient may become a financial burden.
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